For more than a decade, I have lived with the physical, cognitive, and emotional effects of a traumatic brain injury. Before my injury, I was a stand-up comic, worked in television, and led an active life. Then, everything changed when my car was struck head-on by a driver who fell asleep at the wheel.
Since then, everyday tasks can feel overwhelming. I struggle with memory, anxiety, balance, and pain. One of the hardest parts has been feeling unseen, especially when others focus on what has changed instead of recognizing who I am today.
Through it all, I have learned to adapt, communicate my needs, and hold onto the parts of myself that remain central to who I am. My sense of humor continues to help me through difficult days. I also still speak Spanish and play five instruments: piano, guitar, ukulele, clarinet, and harp.
My journey eventually led me to Kessler Foundation, where I have taken part in several research studies. Through that participation, I have learned strategies that help me recognize people, manage anxiety, and stay focused, skills that support my everyday life and help me move forward with confidence.
I am proud of the progress I have made and of the role I play in advancing research that may help others living with brain injury. That progress has also inspired me to explore my family’s genealogy, a meaningful project that strengthens my concentration, sharpens cognitive skills, and uncovers stories I hope to put down on paper.
I am also deeply grateful for my husband and two children, who have stood beside me throughout my recovery. Together, we have found strength as a family. I also credit my Kessler Foundation “family” for welcoming me, offering guidance, and recognizing me for who I am now.
Today, I continue to navigate the ups and downs of life after traumatic brain injury with honesty, resilience, and hope. My story reflects the importance of being seen, supported, and given opportunities to keep growing after life-changing injury.